• SARAH HASPEL

    Founder & Chief Executive Officer


    What happens when a martial arts expert decides pepper spray shouldn't look like an adult novelty? Innovation. With nearly three decades of martial arts expertise, a background in Entertainment, Hospitality & Fashion, and a United States Martial Arts Hall of Fame induction, Sarah brought an unexpected perspective to personal protection: why can't safety be sophisticated? After a harrowing encounter revealed critical gaps in existing defense options, she assembled a dream team of experts to create what traditional protection companies couldn't - or wouldn't. The result?  Bestie. A device that's proudly displayed, not shamefully hidden - protection that commands respect, not questions.

  • NORM TOLENTINO

    Chief Engineer


    Innovation runs deeper than rocket science. With an illustrious engineering career spanning SpaceX, Boeing & Northrop Grumman (yes, some of his creations are currently in space and orbiting Earth and Mars), Norm brings literal rocket science to personal protection. As a father of daughters, he immediately understood the vital importance of Bestie's mission - creating protection that women would actually want to carry and could confidently use. His perspective as a girl dad brought invaluable insights throughout the development process, helping transform innovative concepts into elegant reality. When technical challenges seemed insurmountable, Norm, who moonlights as a professional magician, conjured up the perfect blend of precision engineering and out-of-the-box thinking to make the impossible possible.